Nakulapitusutta

sn22.1:17.1 They don’t regard choices as self, self as having choices, choices in self, or self in choices.

sn22.1:17.2 They’re not obsessed with the thought: ‘I am choices, choices are mine!’

sn22.1:17.3 So when those choices of theirs decay and perish,

sn22.1:17.4 it doesn’t give rise to sorrow, lamentation, pain, sadness, and distress.